Asian Dating Service for Men


AsianPromise is an international Asian dating service. AsianPromise has been helping hundreds of couples find love online since the year 2000 and has achieved a very high success rate. Please see some of our Love Stories


1. Why AsianPromise?


AsianPromise offers a unique Asian dating service, which is run by an Euro-Asian couple. With our knowledge, experience, belief and passion, we help Asian ladies to meet Western men for love and marriage. We believe that finding true love needs direct effort from both sides, therefore unlike many other Asian dating websites, we offer similar memberships for men and women, and don't stand in your way to date by acting as your "agent".


Yes, there are other asian dating websites with more members listed than on AsianPromise. But listing more dating profiles does not gaurantee you greater success. We could pad out our listings of Asian ladies with the thousands of asian dating profiles now available for sale online if we thought that would help our members find the love of their life. But we know from 13 years in the industry that our men enjoy greater success by dating a smaller number of real Asian women but who are sincerely looking for a foreign partner to marry.


AsianPromise offers a quality service, which is monitored and updated every day. We manually review each member's dating profile application for any signs of scamming before we accept them.


When you contact an Asian Promise lady you are contacting them directly, not an agent acting on behalf of that member. You will not be charged letter fees, translation fees, meeting fees, success fees etc. Once you exchange emails you will have each other's own contact details and need have no further involvement with Asian Promise. Our role is to allow you to meet and not to control the dating process. Google "asian dating scams" to get a flavour of how this is a different service than that offered by a number of other websites. 


Richard and Dawn Xiao Yan, have lots of experience with cross-cultural relationships. Dawn Xiao Yan, has published three books that help Western men and Chinese/Asian ladies to meet and to achieve happy cross-cultural relationships. For the details of the books, please see Chinese Women in Love and Marriage and Connecting You to Love. If you want to avoid common pitfalls associated with online asian dating, then please download a copy of the book Chinese Women in Love and Marriage. We have had so many men writing to us to express their regret they did not read it sooner.


2. Why are AsianPromise Ladies Special?


  • Most of our Asian and Chinese ladies are committed to find Western men for love and marriage. The vast majority of our lady members apply to join directly through AsianPromise and are not referred by agencies. Each lady must have their own personal email address so that men can contact them directly.

  • Most of AsianPromise ladies can, with varying skills, write or speak English. Since good Communication is crucial for a happy relationship, we encourage all our ladies to learn and improve their English by talking to you directly. If the lady is not willing to learn English and wants to depend on a translator or agent, we don't welcome her to join AsianPromiseWe believe that direct communication over those first few months is critical to the long term success of the relationship. It gives time to develop the relationship, helps the lady practice and develop her language skills and it saves money for a trip in person if things are working out.

3. How to use our service:

To become a member Free, please use our Membership Application Form. Membership is of 12 months period. We will display your profile in the Men's Profile section. Our ladies view your profile and contact you directly. You can upgrade to a paid member any time during your membership at Member login page.

4. Benefits of membership:

Benefits of Membership



Free Member Paid Member
Display your profile and photo on Asian Promise Yes Yes
View and search other members profiles and photos Yes Yes
Exchange interests to each other through AsianPromise system Yes Yes
Receive emails from other paid members through AsianPromise system Yes Yes
Receiving ongoing Asian dating tips Yes Yes
Email other members with your own words and email address No Yes
The chance to receive interest or emails from other members Small Big
Online support No Yes
Update your profile and photo Limited Unlimited


To become a member click here

5. Cross-Cultural Consultancy Advisory Service

We normally suggest men read our page Asian Culture for general advice. However if people do need individual help regarding cultural issues or cross-cultural dating and marriage, we offer a personal consultancy service with a cost of US$60 per hour (payment is made through the link contribution). This is similar to the charge for consultancy services that we are offering to Chinese women as well. 

Please Note: 
1. Our advice and opinion are only for your reference. 
2. We offer this unique service through Skype online chatting and advance payment and booking are necessary.

6. Support our Asian Dating Service

We are proud to provide an excellent and unique Asian dating service to our men. We hope you enjoy our service and find your beautiful Asian bride through AsianPromise. AsianPromise does not make a profit and it needs your help and support. Your kind contribution to AsianPromise would be very much appreciated!